Overcoming the Unexpected While Planning Your Wedding

Wedding planning can be a huge mix of emotions with a lot of opinions, ideas (some amazing and some not-so-much) A few unexpected things could happen along the way. Here are a few of the most common.

1 | Planning

If you’ve been planning your wedding for months or even over a year, but feel stressed trying to get your groom involved and interested in planning, don’t worry, you’re not alone!

Not every groom loves the idea of picking out flowers, invitations & decor – but keep in mind, you can involve your man in other ways!

Sit down together and talk about what parts of wedding planning get him AMPED up – start with food, drinks, photography, music, etc. Don’t forget to involve him in other interests you share. There are so many non-wedding-related things that you love bonding over with your partner, so you shouldn’t shy away from using your shared interests as inspiration.

Pro tip: If you limit your wedding-related talk to specific times and days, you might find that your groom-to-be is more open and excited about the things you can’t wait to plan!

2 | Bridesmaid Dresses

You’ve selected your favorite people to assist you with planning your big day and the bridal shower is going to be amazing, but you can’t seem to agree on the bridesmaid dresses. It’s amazing having a larger wedding party with many different ideas and personalities, but this can also make finding a dress that will suit the group’s style and figures difficult.

My advice? Stay calm and organized. Send a gentle reminder to the group about the chosen dress and the date you need their measurements by and leave the final details to your maid of honor!

Mismatched bridesmaid dresses are so in! Choose a color pallet and let the ladies pick the style they will love (and maybe even wear again)


3 | Agreeing on the Honeymoon Destination

You and your groom won’t always agree on everything, and that’s okay, but planning your honeymoon is something that should be really exciting and rewarding for both of you! Whether it’s an all-inclusive resort or a trip abroad, make sure you are being fair with picking a honeymoon destination you both will enjoy. Make a list of pros and cons for both of your trip ideas and then pick the trip that seems most enjoyable, practical, and budget-friendly for both of you! Remember, you will have MANY years of anniversaries to celebrate so you can reserve a few ideas for anniversary trips!

4 | The Wedding Registry

It’s amazing that there are so many different products, styles, patterns, etc. to choose from when making a list for your wedding registry. It can easily become an overwhelming task that makes you feel like throwing in the towel (literally)! Start by taking an inventory of what you already have, then choose the places you want to register. We suggest sticking to your style when you feel overwhelmed, but it’s also okay to get outside your comfort zone and try some new colors or patterns of china for special occasions!

Pro Tip: Make sure your list consists of items you will actually use, love, and be helpful in your daily life, as well as in the future when hosting family parties or holiday celebrations!

5 | Honeymoon Essentials

When it comes to packing for your honeymoon, you want to make sure you have all the essentials! Over-packing will weigh you down, but under-packing might leave you regretting having left certain items behind. Limit your packing list and stick to items that you know you will need and use.

Once you’re all packed, pick out an outfit to travel in–especially if it’s a long flight! You’ll want to be comfortable so research some high quality undergarments to keep your man cool underneath, like Tommy John’s selection of high-tech and comfortable underwear options. This lifestyle and comfort brand has a unique pair of 360 Sport boxer briefs equipped a utility pocket to hold all your traveling essentials–like Tylenol, cash, and even your phone! You don’t have to worry about anything falling out if you doze off on the plane, and they will keep you cool, dry, and well-prepared for the trip of a lifetime!


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